We get to decide a lot of things in life as adults, whether that pertains to what we do for a living or who we decide to be in a relationship with. Yet, one thing we don’t get to choose is how we might of made someone feel by something we did.
As a result, if someone does tell you that you hurt their feelings, I recommend that you first apologize to the individual, even if you don’t feel like you did anything wrong.
Next, ask the person why do they feel that you did something to hurt their feelings, because you might of did something to them unintentionally. Furthermore, by asking, you can do a better job to avoid doing it again in the future.
Have you ever told someone something that they did that hurt your feelings, but instead of apologizing they tried to tell you how you should of took it instead?
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