Trailer

People we date don’t come with a trailer to preview like a movie. Furthermore, a lot of people often wish they knew towards the beginning of dating things they discovered towards the end. As a result, it’s vital to ask key questions while going through the dating phases with someone.

Are We Exclusive?

  • Are we exclusive is a good question to ask I feel sometime within the first month of dating if you and the person are hanging out and around each other often. This helps to cut down on confusion and make sure the two of you are on the same page. Also, you don’t want to be exclusive to someone you thought was doing the same and find out they’re not.

Married In the Near Future?

If you’ve been in an official relationship with someone for over 2 years and both of you are over 25, I think it’s a legitimate question to bring up. The answer and reason you’re given can help you to make an inform decision on whether to leave the relationship. Last, you don’t want to waste years of your life with someone that doesn’t see a future with you.

What is something you wish that you could of seen towards the beginning of dating someone like a movie trailer preview?

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Visit

Almost everyone has friends and family that they go and visit often that lives close by them. However, I think it’s important to follow a few rules when you plan or possibly might stop to see someone.

  • Give The Individual A Heads Up

The individual you plan to visit may not have been expecting any company. Thus, their place might not be clean up to standards where they’ll like to have someone else over. Therefore, always try to give at least a 30 minute heads up with a reply back from them that you’re in their area before just popping up. Furthermore, even if you not sure that you’ll stop by, just send a text or give a quick call that you might in advance and wait for a response.

  • Don’t Overstay Your Welcome

Some people struggle to tell others in a nice way that they have plans. As a result, try not to come over and stay for most of the day unless the individual reached out randomly first and recommended it or insist that you don’t leave when you tell them you’re about to after hanging out at their place for about an hour or two. Also, when you develop a reputation of overstaying your welcome, most people aren’t quick to invite you back over.

Have you ever had someone to visit you and overstayed their welcome?

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Kindness

When you are a good hearted person, some people will take your kindness for weakness. Therefore, it’s important to be nice to people, but make sure you set key boundaries as well.

  • Embolden The Individual

Whether intentionally or unintentionally, people do what we allow, accept, and tolerate. As a result, if you’re always going above and beyond for someone who rarely makes you a priority, that person is less likely to have a true incentive to change. Thus, you might even embolden the person actions towards you.

  • Be Direct With Them

From my experience it’s best to be direct with a person when they do something that rubs you the wrong way. First, the person might have no idea that they made you feel a certain way if you don’t tell them. Second, when you are direct, there should be no excuse for it to continue to happen over and over. Last, if it does continue to happen, that individual is letting you know how they truly feel about you.

Have you ever had your kindness taken for weakness? If yes, what happen and what you ended up doing about?

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Agree

No two individuals are alike. Thus, if you’re in a relationship with someone, both of you won’t agree on everything usually. Yet, there are some key things that I feel two people together need to be on the same page on.

  • Key Beliefs & Values

If you believe in a higher power in life and your partner is an atheist, there is a great chance that both of you will disagree and bump heads often on a lot of most small things in life.

  • Chemistry

Someone can check all the boxes of things you’re looking for a potential partner to possess. However, if the natural chemistry not there, conversations on the phone and in person can never seem to flow naturally when the two of you talk.

What are some things you feel are important for two people to agree on or be on the same page about to have a successful long term relationship with each other?

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Sex

There is always a chance of an unplanned pregnancy happening when a man/woman decide to have sex together. As a result, I’ve listed below some key things for a woman to consider before she has sex with just any man.

  • Is He Immature and Irresponsible?

If a woman has a baby with a guy who isn’t ready or willing to take on financial responsibilities that come with being a father, she can potentially end up raising the child alone, which some women don’t sign up for but end up being their reality.

  • Is This Someone You Think Will Make a Good Father?

Certain things you don’t want to gamble with potential on and I feel this is one. Therefore, go off what a guy is showing or not showing you consistently through his actions over his consistent words in making a decision on whether you think he will make a good father if you were to get pregnant by him.

What are some other key things to consider in your opinion before having sex with a guy?

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Perspective

Holidays can be tough time for some women that are single who are seeking a romantic relationship. Not to mentioned, if a person isn’t looking at things from a positive perspective, they can easily find themselves being a little down when they probably shouldn’t be.

  • Treated Special Rarely During The Year

There are some women that are only treated special about three days a year by their significant other. Those days usually fall on their birthday, Valentine’s day, and Christmas. The last time I checked that leaves 362 days in the year that needs to be accounted for. Therefore, I don’t think that is anything to envy another individual about.

  • Social Media Era

We live in the social media era where people get to control the narrative for the most part of what you view, see, and hear when it comes to their life. As a result, the majority of people with a significant other are just showing or telling you what they want you to know about their relationship, so definitely don’t get discourage about that.

  • Everybody Timeline Is Not The Same

Everybody doesn’t meet the person that is the one for them on the same timeline. Use your time single to improve your personal and professional life daily. Thus, when you do meet that special someone you can love them the right way.

Have you ever felt down after a friend or family member told you good news about their relationship? If yes, what did you think about from a positive perspective to help you feel better?

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Get Ahead

If you never seem to ever be able to get ahead in life, evaluate the people that you’re around daily. Thus, if the people around you don’t have similar aspirations and goals in life, they can hinder you from progressing.

  • Close Dependent Family & Friends

You can be making great money, but if people in your inner circle are needing to borrow money often and hardly ever paying you back, that can be a key factor why your money never seem to really increase, no matter how much you continue to move up the ladder in your career.

  • People That Motivate And Encourage

If you’re around people often that motivate and encourage you they will probably expand your horizon on your way of thinking. Furthermore, will introduce you to a new way of doing things that likely will help you to get ahead.

  • Evaluate What You Do On A Regular

Evaluating what you’re reading and watching on a regular is just as important. There is nothing wrong with doing things for entertainment, but you want to make sure that you’re learning something that you can apply in your daily life sometime as well, since having balance is essential in everything.

Are you currently struggling to get ahead in life? If yes, do you feel the things I mentioned are the reason why?

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Consequences

We are free to choose whatever we want to do, but not free from the consequences of those actions. Therefore, it’s imperative that we don’t make decisions solely based off of what we feel like doing in the moment. Thus, we should always try and factor in how it might impact us in the long term.

For example, even if you hate your current job, it’s not the best idea to up and quit if it’s your single source of income and you’re living paycheck to paycheck. Finding a new job that you want might take longer than you planned. Therefore, no need to get behind on bills while looking for something better if it can be avoided.

Furthermore, you might need the money and settle for another job you don’t want. As a result, basically end up looking for another job as soon as you start the new one because of not having patience.

Is there a decision you made in the moment before that had long term consequences you didn’t factor in?

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Borrow Money

Most people have let a loved one borrow money, with the agreement they would be paid back. Unfortunately, things don’t go as plan always, even if the person borrowed the money with good intentions. Thus, if you’re NOT able to answer yes to both questions I’m about to raise, it’s probably not a good idea to lend someone money.

  • Usually Pay Bills On Time?

Does the individual have a track history of paying their bills on time? If no, the chances are low that they will pay you back on time.

  • Realistic Pay Back Plan?

Often times the individual who needs the money only focus is that moment in time. As a result, the person usually not even thinking about when they do get paid in having to give you your owed amount out of that and basically being back in the same situation that has them currently trying to borrow from you.

What are some other good questions in your opinion to ask someone before letting them borrow money?

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Kids

I don’t have any kids yet, but I definitely want to be able to help and give any future child of mines an even better head start in life once they become an adult than what I had. Things don’t always go as planned. As a result, sometime parents can actually be hurting their kid when they think that they’re helping.

Allowing Your Child To Stay With You As An Adult

  • If your child is saving a significant amount of their money monthly to buy a house or putting some of it aside in an emergency fund this can be a great thing, However, if they are just blowing most of their money monthly this can be a very bad thing, especially if he/she is living a lifestyle with you that they wouldn’t be able to sustain on their own.
  • A child will be less motivated to move out if they get to blow all of their money earned while living with you. Furthermore, kids that grow up this way struggle often when they start living with someone in a romantic relationship. The key reason is because the average person is going to want their partner to help and contribute something to the monthly bills if they’re working.

Has there ever been something you allowed your kids to do that you later regretted because you felt that you did a disservice to them?

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