Trap Kings

Most of us have heard about a woman getting pregnant on purpose before, by deceiving the man in some type of way. Yet, these days it’s just as prevalent unfortunately for some men to do the same thing. As a result, I’ve listed two key traits below of guys that usually does this.

Controlling Man

  • If a guy is controlling and has a nice young lady as his girlfriend/wife that he isn’t treating right, friends and family usually will make him aware of it on a regular. Thus, when some controlling guys feel that their lady might be thinking about leaving them, they will get her pregnant on purpose because the average woman is not as quick to end a relationship she isn’t happy in when a child is involve.

Insecure Man

  • Insecure men normally don’t feel they deserve their woman, why some routinely go out of their way to try and put her down instead of building her up. Furthermore, they usually don’t bring just as much to the table either and often get mad at their lady for her achievements in life, even if she doesn’t rub it in his face and treats him as her equal.

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Spontaneous In Life

There is nothing wrong with being spontaneous when it comes to certain things. Yet, the average person can’t afford to be that way in everything they do in life. Thus, I’ll listed a couple of those things below.

Retirement Savings

  • This isn’t something you can decide to get serious about 5-10 years before you’re planning to retire. As a result, you should start contributing consistently to this savings at least by your late 20s.

Kid’s Tuition

  • There is a 50/50 chance that your kid is going to college one day when they’re born. Therefore, don’t wait until your child is a junior or senior in high school to start trying to save for it or worst case, leave it up to your child to pay for it on their own.

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What Up With The Questions?

A person has to be willing to answer simple, yet legit questions in order for someone to get know them. Therefore, if you got an issue with the questions below being asked, you’re probably not ready or should be dating.

What you do for a living?

  • An individual you just started talking to shouldn’t be asking how much you make a year. However, what you do for a living is a valid question, since some people aren’t doing anything in life with no ambition. Furthermore, what you do might be legal, but doesn’t align with their beliefs and values.

What are your expectations between us?

  • It’s important to always have expectations and express them, especially when first meeting someone, so the two of you are on the same page from the start and know what the other is looking for. Thus, people that know they’re not looking for anything long term and plan to just waste your time usually have an issue with this question.

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Controlling Partner

When you’re in love, most people don’t pay attention to or recognize key red flags that are present at the start of the relationship. Thus, I’ve listed below some traits of a controlling partner.

Belittle You Often

  • Your partner should be building you up and offering words of encouragement when needed. Yet, a controlling partner often does the opposite by trying to tear you down and belittling you.

Try To Isolate You From Friends/Family

  • A controlling partner will try and isolate you by making you feel guilty, along with texting and calling constantly with accusations whenever you do hang out with friends and family, so you’ll eventually end up not going out without them just to keep the peace.

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It’s Ok To Say NO!

It’s natural when you love someone to want to be there for them always, especially when they need you. However, it’s important to be honest and able to tell people that we love NO sometime when we need to.

Repeat Past Mistakes On A Regular

  • If an individual starts to come to you on a regular for help on the exact thing you’ve previously bailed them out on, then it’s probably time to say NO, since they’re clearly not learning from past lessons and repeating the same mistakes.

Feeling Of Entitlement

  • When a person starts to tell you what you should do for them, instead of asking, they feel entitle. Therefore, it’s important to say NO to remind the individual that things you do for them are out of love, but definitely not from obligation.

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Health Care Workers – MVPs 2020

Patient-facing health care workers have been on the front line during the current Coronavirus epidemic, while helping infected patients. Thus, consider doing the following things for your health care significant other so they can feel appreciated while at home:

Prepared Dinner/Body Rub

  • If your partner normally does the cooking, surprise him/her with a prepared meal already ready when they step in the door. Furthermore, give him/her a nice body rub, whether that be a foot rub or a neck massage.

Have Key Household Chores Completed

  • After a long hard stressful workday, the last thing a person wants to come home to is more work, like dishes needing to be clean and the washing and folding of laundry, when their partner has been at home hours before them relaxing.

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Be Direct

If you have an issue with another individual , it’s always best to directly communicate your specific problem with them. Yet, some people will choose to not say anything and just start to act different towards the other person.

Energy attracts like energy, whether that is positive or negative. Therefore, if the average person doesn’t know why you’re acting different, you’re going to eventually get that same type of energy back.

Thus, giving the silent treatment or dry replies back to the individual(s) you got a problem with can backfire.

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Coronavirus Pandemic

The Coronavirus pandemic has probably impacted everybody in the world directly or indirectly, in some type of way at this point. Therefore, if you do find yourself at home with some extra time on your hands, consider doing the following:

1. Family Board Games & Movie Nights

Take advantage of this time to spend with your immediate family more if they live with you by playing fun board games and setting aside time to watch family friendly movies together.

2. Give A Family Member Or Good Friend A Call

Give a family member or friend that you don’t talk with daily a call to catch up and let them know that you’re thinking of them, since small things like a simple phone call can have a big impact on another person day in a positive way.

3. Find A Good Book To Read

Knowledge is a powerful weapon, so arm yourself with it by finding a book and read on a specific topic you’re interested in knowing more about that isn’t covered daily on your favorite tv show or streaming service that you watch on a regular.

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Priority Or An Option

Everybody likes to hear words of affirmation and have things done by others that make us feel special. However, a question that should be asked is whether you’re doing those type of things on a regular in return.

Therefore, if you’re a person that never randomly call or text another individual first, that takes the initiative to contact you first often, don’t be surprise when the person stops doing it.

I say that because unless a person doesn’t know their worth or has a low self esteem, that person is going to eventually start to treat you the same way that you treat them.

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One More Chance

Some people currently have an ex boyfriend/girlfriend that wants to get back together. If you are thinking about giving your ex another chance, just remember the following before making a decision.

1.Remember Why Your Ex Is Your Ex

  • Your ex is usually your ex for a reason, and that reason is rarely because they were treating you so great and making you happy being around them on a regular leading up towards the breakup if you broke up with them.

2.Does The Person Value You Now Or Just Miss You?

  • A person shouldn’t have to lose you, to know how to value and cherish you, especially when you brought up your concerns and gave the individual multiple chances while with them, without change behavior by them.

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