Agree

No two individuals are alike. Thus, if you’re in a relationship with someone, both of you won’t agree on everything usually. Yet, there are some key things that I feel two people together need to be on the same page on.

  • Key Beliefs & Values

If you believe in a higher power in life and your partner is an atheist, there is a great chance that both of you will disagree and bump heads often on a lot of most small things in life.

  • Chemistry

Someone can check all the boxes of things you’re looking for a potential partner to possess. However, if the natural chemistry not there, conversations on the phone and in person can never seem to flow naturally when the two of you talk.

What are some things you feel are important for two people to agree on or be on the same page about to have a successful long term relationship with each other?

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Sex

There is always a chance of an unplanned pregnancy happening when a man/woman decide to have sex together. As a result, I’ve listed below some key things for a woman to consider before she has sex with just any man.

  • Is He Immature and Irresponsible?

If a woman has a baby with a guy who isn’t ready or willing to take on financial responsibilities that come with being a father, she can potentially end up raising the child alone, which some women don’t sign up for but end up being their reality.

  • Is This Someone You Think Will Make a Good Father?

Certain things you don’t want to gamble with potential on and I feel this is one. Therefore, go off what a guy is showing or not showing you consistently through his actions over his consistent words in making a decision on whether you think he will make a good father if you were to get pregnant by him.

What are some other key things to consider in your opinion before having sex with a guy?

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Perspective

Holidays can be tough time for some women that are single who are seeking a romantic relationship. Not to mentioned, if a person isn’t looking at things from a positive perspective, they can easily find themselves being a little down when they probably shouldn’t be.

  • Treated Special Rarely During The Year

There are some women that are only treated special about three days a year by their significant other. Those days usually fall on their birthday, Valentine’s day, and Christmas. The last time I checked that leaves 362 days in the year that needs to be accounted for. Therefore, I don’t think that is anything to envy another individual about.

  • Social Media Era

We live in the social media era where people get to control the narrative for the most part of what you view, see, and hear when it comes to their life. As a result, the majority of people with a significant other are just showing or telling you what they want you to know about their relationship, so definitely don’t get discourage about that.

  • Everybody Timeline Is Not The Same

Everybody doesn’t meet the person that is the one for them on the same timeline. Use your time single to improve your personal and professional life daily. Thus, when you do meet that special someone you can love them the right way.

Have you ever felt down after a friend or family member told you good news about their relationship? If yes, what did you think about from a positive perspective to help you feel better?

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Get Ahead

If you never seem to ever be able to get ahead in life, evaluate the people that you’re around daily. Thus, if the people around you don’t have similar aspirations and goals in life, they can hinder you from progressing.

  • Close Dependent Family & Friends

You can be making great money, but if people in your inner circle are needing to borrow money often and hardly ever paying you back, that can be a key factor why your money never seem to really increase, no matter how much you continue to move up the ladder in your career.

  • People That Motivate And Encourage

If you’re around people often that motivate and encourage you they will probably expand your horizon on your way of thinking. Furthermore, will introduce you to a new way of doing things that likely will help you to get ahead.

  • Evaluate What You Do On A Regular

Evaluating what you’re reading and watching on a regular is just as important. There is nothing wrong with doing things for entertainment, but you want to make sure that you’re learning something that you can apply in your daily life sometime as well, since having balance is essential in everything.

Are you currently struggling to get ahead in life? If yes, do you feel the things I mentioned are the reason why?

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Consequences

We are free to choose whatever we want to do, but not free from the consequences of those actions. Therefore, it’s imperative that we don’t make decisions solely based off of what we feel like doing in the moment. Thus, we should always try and factor in how it might impact us in the long term.

For example, even if you hate your current job, it’s not the best idea to up and quit if it’s your single source of income and you’re living paycheck to paycheck. Finding a new job that you want might take longer than you planned. Therefore, no need to get behind on bills while looking for something better if it can be avoided.

Furthermore, you might need the money and settle for another job you don’t want. As a result, basically end up looking for another job as soon as you start the new one because of not having patience.

Is there a decision you made in the moment before that had long term consequences you didn’t factor in?

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Borrow Money

Most people have let a loved one borrow money, with the agreement they would be paid back. Unfortunately, things don’t go as plan always, even if the person borrowed the money with good intentions. Thus, if you’re NOT able to answer yes to both questions I’m about to raise, it’s probably not a good idea to lend someone money.

  • Usually Pay Bills On Time?

Does the individual have a track history of paying their bills on time? If no, the chances are low that they will pay you back on time.

  • Realistic Pay Back Plan?

Often times the individual who needs the money only focus is that moment in time. As a result, the person usually not even thinking about when they do get paid in having to give you your owed amount out of that and basically being back in the same situation that has them currently trying to borrow from you.

What are some other good questions in your opinion to ask someone before letting them borrow money?

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Kids

I don’t have any kids yet, but I definitely want to be able to help and give any future child of mines an even better head start in life once they become an adult than what I had. Things don’t always go as planned. As a result, sometime parents can actually be hurting their kid when they think that they’re helping.

Allowing Your Child To Stay With You As An Adult

  • If your child is saving a significant amount of their money monthly to buy a house or putting some of it aside in an emergency fund this can be a great thing, However, if they are just blowing most of their money monthly this can be a very bad thing, especially if he/she is living a lifestyle with you that they wouldn’t be able to sustain on their own.
  • A child will be less motivated to move out if they get to blow all of their money earned while living with you. Furthermore, kids that grow up this way struggle often when they start living with someone in a romantic relationship. The key reason is because the average person is going to want their partner to help and contribute something to the monthly bills if they’re working.

Has there ever been something you allowed your kids to do that you later regretted because you felt that you did a disservice to them?

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Excuses

I grew up in the south, so you will probably hear me repeat a lot of sayings often in my blogs, one of them being “excuses or results.” We can make excuses about anything in life that we really don’t want to do and some are valid. Yet, they rarely get us to where we want to be or what we desire to have, but results do.

For instance, if you just graduated college and having a hard time getting a job in the field that you got your degree in, the easy thing to do is to play the victim card while blaming others. Please understand that I know sometime you will actually be a true victim. However, it usually won’t change the reason why you’re down and not happy. Also, sometime you got to think outside the box to get what you want in life.

Therefore, I feel the best way to handle this type of situation is to randomly start contacting HR resources through a tool like Linkedin. Let them know that you’re willing to do an internship for free for about two or three months. Thus, if you’re willing to work for free, there is a high chance someone will find a spot for you.

Plus, it’s a win-win for both sides, since you’ll get the needed internship experience. Furthermore, the company will get free work and might even decide to bring you on-board full time afterwards.

Have you made an excuse recently about something? If yes, what was it and did it help to get you the final result you wanted?

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Complicated

Have you ask someone are they in an exclusive relationship for them to tell you “It’s complicated”? That particular reply has always baffled me when I hear it. The reason is because I only think of a few legitimate answers someone can respond to that question with and that isn’t one of them.

In my opinion you’re either in or not in an exclusive relationship with someone. Also, some people do agree to take a break to try and figure some things out occasionally. Yet, a break in my opinion means the two individuals aren’t together or living by relationship rules with each other at that time.

When I hear someone say “its complicated” that makes me question how good the communication is in their relationship. I say that because I feel if the communication is good neither party should ever be unsure where things stand.

Furthermore, I think that it’s vital for any potential couple to have good and open communication by making time to talk on the phone on a regular, even if they can’t be around each other daily.

Have you ever been in a romantic relationship that you felt your relationship status was “it’s complicated”? If yes, why did you feel that it was and did things ever change with that person?

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Single

I’m often asked by people that get to know me why I’m still single. My reply is always that I haven’t met a special young lady that I see a long term future with as my potential wife one day and feel will make a great mother to my future child. Not to mention, I’m happily single and in a good space in life.

Also, being in a romantic relationship works two ways. She has to want to be in one with me and I have to want the same with her. Thus, sometime ladies don’t want to be in one with me either, which is totally fine since everybody isn’t compatible.

Therefore, don’t ever feel bad about being single, since the goal isn’t to be in a relationship just to say you got somebody. However, it should be to be in one with a person you view overall as an asset and not a liability. Furthermore, you want the chemistry to be natural between the two of you, along with sharing similar key beliefs and values in life in my opinion.

Do you get ask why you’re single often? If yes, what is usually your response and how does it make you feel?

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