Visit

Almost everyone has friends and family that they go and visit often that lives close by them. However, I think it’s important to follow a few rules when you plan or possibly might stop to see someone.

  • Give The Individual A Heads Up

The individual you plan to visit may not have been expecting any company. Thus, their place might not be clean up to standards where they’ll like to have someone else over. Therefore, always try to give at least a 30 minute heads up with a reply back from them that you’re in their area before just popping up. Furthermore, even if you not sure that you’ll stop by, just send a text or give a quick call that you might in advance and wait for a response.

  • Don’t Overstay Your Welcome

Some people struggle to tell others in a nice way that they have plans. As a result, try not to come over and stay for most of the day unless the individual reached out randomly first and recommended it or insist that you don’t leave when you tell them you’re about to after hanging out at their place for about an hour or two. Also, when you develop a reputation of overstaying your welcome, most people aren’t quick to invite you back over.

Have you ever had someone to visit you and overstayed their welcome?

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Perspective

Holidays can be tough time for some women that are single who are seeking a romantic relationship. Not to mentioned, if a person isn’t looking at things from a positive perspective, they can easily find themselves being a little down when they probably shouldn’t be.

  • Treated Special Rarely During The Year

There are some women that are only treated special about three days a year by their significant other. Those days usually fall on their birthday, Valentine’s day, and Christmas. The last time I checked that leaves 362 days in the year that needs to be accounted for. Therefore, I don’t think that is anything to envy another individual about.

  • Social Media Era

We live in the social media era where people get to control the narrative for the most part of what you view, see, and hear when it comes to their life. As a result, the majority of people with a significant other are just showing or telling you what they want you to know about their relationship, so definitely don’t get discourage about that.

  • Everybody Timeline Is Not The Same

Everybody doesn’t meet the person that is the one for them on the same timeline. Use your time single to improve your personal and professional life daily. Thus, when you do meet that special someone you can love them the right way.

Have you ever felt down after a friend or family member told you good news about their relationship? If yes, what did you think about from a positive perspective to help you feel better?

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Assume

One of the things which makes the world great in my opinion is that everyone doesn’t like the same things or think alike. Yet, most disagreements between family members or friends happens when one person assume that everyone does think like them. However, that is definitely not the mindset you want to have, since it can lead to a lot of miscommunication that could be avoided.

  • Give Others The Respect You Want In Return

I’m hoping you wouldn’t want someone that you care about to have an issue with you and not let you know about it directly, but address the issue with a number of other people instead. Thus, why would you want to do that to another person?

  • Listen To Understand

If you do have a discussion with the individual that you’re mad or disappointed in, be sure to listen to with the intent to understand instead of listening to reply. This is important to do because the two of you might of been looking at things from different perspectives. As a result, neither one of you might actually be right or wrong and the other person honestly might not of had any clue of what they did before you told them.

Has there ever been a time where you initially assume someone intent in doing something to find out you was wrong after a conversation with them?

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First Date

Most guys goal when they ask a woman out on a first date is for her to have a good time with them so she’ll want to go out again. Yet, sometime there are things that guys don’t do, even if it was unintentional, that can have a woman not wanting to even go out once with them.

  • Know Key Things That She Likes To Do

A guy should know before planning out a first date what type of food the woman like, along with some activities she enjoy doing in her free time, mainly to increase his chances of her saying yes and having a great time while with him.

  • Inform Her In Advance

It’s important for a guy to let a woman know at least a day in advance, along with providing the time and what all he plan for the two of them to do on the date in my opinion so the woman doesn’t feel like she was just a last minute backup plan. Also, this helps to possibly give her time to change up some things on her schedule to go out on the date if she initially was busy.

Have you ever been ask to go out on a first date by a guy at the last minute? If yes. how did that make you feel at that time?

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Can’t Afford

No matter how much a person make, I feel just about everyone should have a monthly budget so you’re not spending more most months than what you’re bringing in. Furthermore, just because you can rent or buy something doesn’t mean you can actually afford it always.

  • High Rise Luxury Apartment Downtown

If you stay in a luxury high rise apartment downtown in any major city but can’t afford to go back to your hometown to be with most of your family during a holiday, that is sign to me that you might want to downgrade to a place that cost less. Also, you can still find a place that is nice but a little cheaper monthly in other areas of the city.

  • Luxury Car Purchase

It is not a good look in my opinion to have a luxury car you’re still paying on monthly that you have an accident in that leaves a noticeable dent with over two months to pass by without it being fix. That is usually a sign that the person might want to get a car that the yearly maintenance and parts isn’t as high and easier to maintain and more within their budget.

What are some other examples of things you’re seen a person able to rent or buy but actually can’t afford it every month?

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A Real Friend

People often confuse a person that is actually an acquaintance as a real friend, mainly due to platforms like Facebook. Furthermore, if you ask five random people of their criteria of a real friend you probably receive five different answers. However, I think all of them would agree that if an individual starts to act different towards you just because you tell them NO or have just as much as them now in life that isn’t a real friend.

  • Fair-weather Friends

Some people are only friends with you based on what they feel you can do for them. As a result, they will use you until they can’t use you anymore and quick to forget all the times you said YES to what they want and only remember the few times you told them NO.

  • Friends That Don’t Want You To Do Better Than Them

There are some people that can be a great friend to you long as they feel you are not on their level and deliberately surround themselves all the time with other individuals they feel are beneath them as well. Yet, when they feel like you’re doing just as good or better than them in life, they start to act different unfortunately.

What are some other things that you feel are red flags of a person not being a real friend?

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Household Bills

There isn’t one right answer in terms of how monthly household bills should be split between a couple living together. The key thing is for the two of them to be on the same page with clear expectations establish. Thus, I’m simply giving my opinion on how I feel things should be divided below.

Our Yearly Salary Is About The Same

  • I consider marriage to be a partnership and not a sponsorship. Therefore, if we both got good jobs and make about the same yearly my expectations is for my partner and I to split all household bills 50/50 each month.

I Make Significantly More Than My Partner

  • A key motto of mines in life is to treat others like I want to be treated. Therefore, I can’t have my partner splitting the household bills with me 50/50 if I make way more than her, since I wouldn’t want her to do that to me. Furthermore, I want to make sure my partner still has money after bills are paid to purchase nice things. As a result, I got no issue in having an 80/20 split on bills for that to be the case.

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What We Allow

When it comes to relationships people do what we allow, accept, and tolerate from them. As a result, it’s important to have consequences to actions, so they have an incentive to do the right thing. Furthermore, if a person isn’t willing to do right then you should consider helping them to appreciate your absence.

Cheating Partner

  • If you have a partner that has cheated on you multiple times there is a good chance that person doesn’t respect you. However, the root cause of that disrespect may arise from the individual not being afraid of you leaving them. Thus, you got to stop giving unlimited loyalty to them when they consistently give you limited loyalty in return.

Money Tree To Friends/Family

  • A person shouldn’t need to borrow money from you on a consistent basis, unless they are living out of their budget or don’t have one. In either case, their bad planning should not be your emergency. Therefore, you want to say NO to them sometime, even if you do have the extra money to give so you don’t handicap and make them think it’s alright to not be responsible and just do whatever they want with their money knowing you will always be there to bail them out.

What is something that you allow or allowed from another individual in the past that you wished you never did?

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Student Loans

The average student graduates from a four year college with student loans of about $28,000. Some students become eligible to have their loan debt forgiven. Yet, that is not the case for most. As a result, I plan to pay the full amount if my child has loan debt after graduation.

Head Start In Life

  • Even though I’ve had a great life so far, I’ll like to do my best to ensure my kid(s) has an even better life than me. The key for that to happen in my opinion is to give them good exposure to more things at a younger age and not have them to start their adult life off with a lot of debt. Therefore, I’ll feel like I failed them if they graduate in 4-5 years with almost 30k of debt.

Resentment Can Be Created

  • To avoid a lot of loan debt, it’s usually too late for a kid to start saving up on their own in high school when they’re able to work. Furthermore, the average kid not thinking about or got a way to save for college while in elementary school. Thus, a teen can sometime have resentment towards their parents when they feel the debt stems from bad planning by their parents

Do you feel parents should help pay off student loans of their kids after graduation if they’re able to?

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Personal Growth

It’s important in life to have people in your inner circle that care about you. Yet, it’s key to have people that will not just tell you what you want to hear but what you need to hear as well for your personal growth.

Furthermore, in order to grow, a person has to come out of their comfort zone and be open to constructive criticism. However, it won’t take place if you just surround yourself with people that just know as much as you.

What is something in your life that you achieved by coming out of your comfort zone that helped with your personal growth?

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