Allow, Accept, and Tolerate

When it comes to relationships people do what we allow, accept, and tolerate from them. As a result, it’s important to have consequences to actions, so they have an incentive to do the right thing. Furthermore, if a person isn’t willing to do right then you should consider helping them to appreciate your absence.

Cheating Partner

  • If you have a partner that has cheated on you multiple times there is a good chance that person doesn’t respect you. However, the root cause of that disrespect may arise from the individual not being afraid of you leaving them. Thus, you got to stop giving unlimited loyalty to them when they consistently give you limited loyalty in return.

Money Tree To Friends/Family

  • A person shouldn’t need to borrow money from you on a consistent basis, unless they are living out of their budget or don’t have one. In either case, their bad planning should not be your emergency. Therefore, you want to say NO to them sometime, even if you do have the extra money to give so you don’t handicap and make them think it’s alright to not be responsible and just do whatever they want with their money knowing you will always be there to bail them out.

What is something that you have allowed, accepted, or tolerated from another individual in the past that you wished you never did?

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What Would You Do?

We don’t need to experience some things in life firsthand and can learn from others instead. Yet, it’s critical to seek advice from the right people when it comes to certain things.

  • Career Path Advice

Just because someone might be an expert in one field doesn’t guarantee that they’re an expert in a totally different field, which they haven’t spent any time really working in. Thus, look for career advice from an individual that is already where you’re striving to be at eventually and who was once in your current position.

  • Money Advice

Most family members we’re close to have our best interests at heart when they give financial advice. However, their advice is only based on what they know. Therefore, seek money advice from a person actually living the life you desire to have already, so you can have a better idea of what that person does consistently on a regular and try to incorporate some, if not all of those things in your life.

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Coronavirus Pandemic

The Coronavirus pandemic has probably impacted everybody in the world directly or indirectly, in some type of way at this point. Therefore, if you do find yourself at home with some extra time on your hands, consider doing the following:

1. Family Board Games & Movie Nights

Take advantage of this time to spend with your immediate family more if they live with you by playing fun board games and setting aside time to watch family friendly movies together.

2. Give A Family Member Or Good Friend A Call

Give a family member or friend that you don’t talk with daily a call to catch up and let them know that you’re thinking of them, since small things like a simple phone call can have a big impact on another person day in a positive way.

3. Find A Good Book To Read

Knowledge is a powerful weapon, so arm yourself with it by finding a book and read on a specific topic you’re interested in knowing more about that isn’t covered daily on your favorite tv show or streaming service that you watch on a regular.

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Games People Play Part I

Individuals that are manipulative often like to be around friends and family that are easy going and not real inquisitive, mainly so they can take advantage of them when they want to, without feeling the need of having to deal with consequences to their actions.

Thus, one particular game they like to play with easy going people is to get mad at them over something small and not speak for a few days, usually consistently and conveniently close to the person upcoming birthday or a special occasion like Valentine’s Day, where they feel obligated to buy something.

Yet, they got no issue in apologizing and wanting to make up shortly after the special occasion date has passed, when they don’t feel like they’re on the hook to get the other person anything anymore.

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Can Choose Friends, Not Family

We can choose our friends in life but we can’t choose family. Thus, it’s important for us to try and treat family members as we do with our friends, by loving them for their good qualities and accepting them for their imperfections.

Be Aware Of Their Shortcomings

Nobody is perfect, why as humans, we all have different strengths and weaknesses. Therefore, if you got somebody you love that’s known to not be on time hardly for anything, it’s best to not depend on that person for something like dropping you off at the airport for a schedule flight if you can help it.

Love From A Distance When Needed

Everybody that we love don’t know how to deal with personal issues they might be going through, which can impact how they treat us. Furthermore, some people we love don’t know how to provide us with words of encouragement when we open up to them and discuss things we’re dealing with.

As a result, it’s important to know when to distance ourselves from love ones when they start to impact us in a negative way consistently from where we’re trying to go in life, as we should do with friends as well.

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Will I Get My Money Back?

Most people have let a family member or friend borrow money before, with the agreement that they would be paid back on a specific day. Unfortunately, things don’t go as plan always, even if the person borrowed the money with their heart in the right place and having all intentions of paying you back fully and on time.

Thus, if you’re NOT able to answer yes to both questions I’m about to raise on the borrower, it’s probably not a good idea to lend them the money with expectations that it will be paid back on the agreed time frame. First, does the individual have a track history of paying their bills on time? If no, the chances are slim to none that he/she about to pay you back on time when the person doesn’t do that with their own money.

Next, does the person really have a plan in place to pay you back on time if you let them borrow the money? This is a legitimate question because often times the individual who needs the money only focus is that moment in time. As a result, the person usually not even thinking about two weeks later on when they do get paid in having to give you your owed amount out of that and basically being back in the same situation that has them currently trying to borrow from you.

Last, unless the person is about to receive extra money through something like an IRS tax refund, getting paid three times instead of two for a specific month at their job, or provided you with a valid plan there is a great chance you won’t see that money again no time soon if you let them borrow it.

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