Allow, Accept, and Tolerate

When it comes to relationships people do what we allow, accept, and tolerate from them. As a result, it’s important to have consequences to actions, so they have an incentive to do the right thing. Furthermore, if a person isn’t willing to do right then you should consider helping them to appreciate your absence.

Cheating Partner

  • If you have a partner that has cheated on you multiple times there is a good chance that person doesn’t respect you. However, the root cause of that disrespect may arise from the individual not being afraid of you leaving them. Thus, you got to stop giving unlimited loyalty to them when they consistently give you limited loyalty in return.

Money Tree To Friends/Family

  • A person shouldn’t need to borrow money from you on a consistent basis, unless they are living out of their budget or don’t have one. In either case, their bad planning should not be your emergency. Therefore, you want to say NO to them sometime, even if you do have the extra money to give so you don’t handicap and make them think it’s alright to not be responsible and just do whatever they want with their money knowing you will always be there to bail them out.

What is something that you have allowed, accepted, or tolerated from another individual in the past that you wished you never did?

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What Would You Do?

We don’t need to experience some things in life firsthand and can learn from others instead. Yet, it’s critical to seek advice from the right people when it comes to certain things.

  • Career Path Advice

Just because someone might be an expert in one field doesn’t guarantee that they’re an expert in a totally different field, which they haven’t spent any time really working in. Thus, look for career advice from an individual that is already where you’re striving to be at eventually and who was once in your current position.

  • Money Advice

Most family members we’re close to have our best interests at heart when they give financial advice. However, their advice is only based on what they know. Therefore, seek money advice from a person actually living the life you desire to have already, so you can have a better idea of what that person does consistently on a regular and try to incorporate some, if not all of those things in your life.

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Spontaneous In Life

There is nothing wrong with being spontaneous when it comes to certain things. Yet, the average person can’t afford to be that way in everything they do in life. Thus, I’ll listed a couple of those things below.

Retirement Savings

  • This isn’t something you can decide to get serious about 5-10 years before you’re planning to retire. As a result, you should start contributing consistently to this savings at least by your late 20s.

Kid’s Tuition

  • There is a 50/50 chance that your kid is going to college one day when they’re born. Therefore, don’t wait until your child is a junior or senior in high school to start trying to save for it or worst case, leave it up to your child to pay for it on their own.

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