It’s natural when you love someone to want to be there for them always, especially when they need you. However, it’s important to be honest and able to tell people that we love NO sometime when we need to.
Repeat Past Mistakes On A Regular
- If an individual starts to come to you on a regular for help on the exact thing you’ve previously bailed them out on, then it’s probably time to say NO, since they’re clearly not learning from past lessons and repeating the same mistakes.
Feeling Of Entitlement
- When a person starts to tell you what you should do for them, instead of asking, they feel entitle. Therefore, it’s important to say NO to remind the individual that things you do for them are out of love, but definitely not from obligation.
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I’m sure everyone has heard someone in a relationship, especially if the person is married, complain about something they wished their significant other still did that they use to at the start of their relationship. Unfortunately, this is quite common for most people to get too comfortable in a relationship with someone that they’ve been with for a while and start to take the person for granted.
Thus, it’s very important to be consistent while you’re with someone and not to stop doing things that your significant other like, that possibly heavily contributed to the person wanting to be in a relationship with you in the first place. Furthermore, this is why it’s critical to be yourself at the start of the relationship and not try and portray who you think the person that you’re courting wants you to be, like you probably see often on social media sites like Twitter and Instagram, when that isn’t you so the person can make an inform decision on whether they want to get to know you more or decide that the two of you aren’t compatible, which you rather learn earlier than later if that is truly the case anyhow.
Last, I recommend that any couple that have possibly lost some of their relationship fire to start sitting down once a week with their significant other to give each other relationship grades of an A,B,C,D, or a F and be able to explain why. As a result, this is a way for the two of you to let each other know what you like that was done that week, along with a chance to hold each other accountable and receive constructive feedback on improvement opportunities to hopefully help your relationship continue to grow even more.
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