Kindness

When you are a good hearted person, some people will take your kindness for weakness. Therefore, it’s important to be nice to people, but make sure you set key boundaries as well.

  • Embolden The Individual

Whether intentionally or unintentionally, people do what we allow, accept, and tolerate. As a result, if you’re always going above and beyond for someone who rarely makes you a priority, that person is less likely to have a true incentive to change. Thus, you might even embolden the person actions towards you.

  • Be Direct With Them

From my experience it’s best to be direct with a person when they do something that rubs you the wrong way. First, the person might have no idea that they made you feel a certain way if you don’t tell them. Second, when you are direct, there should be no excuse for it to continue to happen over and over. Last, if it does continue to happen, that individual is letting you know how they truly feel about you.

Have you ever had your kindness taken for weakness? If yes, what happen and what you ended up doing about?

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Sex

There is always a chance of an unplanned pregnancy happening when a man/woman decide to have sex together. As a result, I’ve listed below some key things for a woman to consider before she has sex with just any man.

  • Is He Immature and Irresponsible?

If a woman has a baby with a guy who isn’t ready or willing to take on financial responsibilities that come with being a father, she can potentially end up raising the child alone, which some women don’t sign up for but end up being their reality.

  • Is This Someone You Think Will Make a Good Father?

Certain things you don’t want to gamble with potential on and I feel this is one. Therefore, go off what a guy is showing or not showing you consistently through his actions over his consistent words in making a decision on whether you think he will make a good father if you were to get pregnant by him.

What are some other key things to consider in your opinion before having sex with a guy?

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Complicated

Have you ask someone are they in an exclusive relationship for them to tell you “It’s complicated”? That particular reply has always baffled me when I hear it. The reason is because I only think of a few legitimate answers someone can respond to that question with and that isn’t one of them.

In my opinion you’re either in or not in an exclusive relationship with someone. Also, some people do agree to take a break to try and figure some things out occasionally. Yet, a break in my opinion means the two individuals aren’t together or living by relationship rules with each other at that time.

When I hear someone say “its complicated” that makes me question how good the communication is in their relationship. I say that because I feel if the communication is good neither party should ever be unsure where things stand.

Furthermore, I think that it’s vital for any potential couple to have good and open communication by making time to talk on the phone on a regular, even if they can’t be around each other daily.

Have you ever been in a romantic relationship that you felt your relationship status was “it’s complicated”? If yes, why did you feel that it was and did things ever change with that person?

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Single

I’m often asked by people that get to know me why I’m still single. My reply is always that I haven’t met a special young lady that I see a long term future with as my potential wife one day and feel will make a great mother to my future child. Not to mention, I’m happily single and in a good space in life.

Also, being in a romantic relationship works two ways. She has to want to be in one with me and I have to want the same with her. Thus, sometime ladies don’t want to be in one with me either, which is totally fine since everybody isn’t compatible.

Therefore, don’t ever feel bad about being single, since the goal isn’t to be in a relationship just to say you got somebody. However, it should be to be in one with a person you view overall as an asset and not a liability. Furthermore, you want the chemistry to be natural between the two of you, along with sharing similar key beliefs and values in life in my opinion.

Do you get ask why you’re single often? If yes, what is usually your response and how does it make you feel?

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Grade

I’m sure everyone has heard an individual in a relationship complain before about something they wished their significant other still did often that they use to when the two of them first started dating. It’s common for most people to get too relax in a relationship with someone that they’ve been with for awhile. Thus, I think all couples should give each other a weekly relationship grade.

It’s important to be consistent while you’re with someone and not to stop doing things that your significant other like, especially if it heavily contributed to them wanting to be with you in the first place.

As a result, this is a chance for the two to hold each other accountable, along with receiving and giving constructive feedback. Furthermore, this also a chance when they can let their partner know what they’re doing well.

Do you feel a couple giving each other a weekly relationship grade is a good thing?

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Liability

I believe that the people we interact with daily in our lives are either an asset or liability to us. Therefore, if you have to choose, I’m sure most people will prefer the person that they view as an asset. Yet, a lot of people have friends and family members, along with a current significant other that is a liability.

  • One-Sided Relationships

One key sign that a friend or family member is a liability to you is if you find yourself making them a priority and helping with something on a regular, but they’re hardly ever available and make you feel like an option often when you need them, even if it’s just for something small.

  • Not Happy Around Them Often

If you find yourself less happy and more stress most of the time you’re around another individual because of what they do or don’t on a regular, there is a good chance they are a liability in your life and that you need to distance yourself from around them.

What are some other examples of a person being a liability that you can think of?

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Assume

One of the things which makes the world great in my opinion is that everyone doesn’t like the same things or think alike. Yet, most disagreements between family members or friends happens when one person assume that everyone does think like them. However, that is definitely not the mindset you want to have, since it can lead to a lot of miscommunication that could be avoided.

  • Give Others The Respect You Want In Return

I’m hoping you wouldn’t want someone that you care about to have an issue with you and not let you know about it directly, but address the issue with a number of other people instead. Thus, why would you want to do that to another person?

  • Listen To Understand

If you do have a discussion with the individual that you’re mad or disappointed in, be sure to listen to with the intent to understand instead of listening to reply. This is important to do because the two of you might of been looking at things from different perspectives. As a result, neither one of you might actually be right or wrong and the other person honestly might not of had any clue of what they did before you told them.

Has there ever been a time where you initially assume someone intent in doing something to find out you was wrong after a conversation with them?

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