Unrealistic

A conversation to set clear expectations of what you’re looking for should take place early on when you first start to talk to a person so the two of you can be on the same page. Yet, unrealistic goals can end a potential relationship before it even starts.

Relationship Ultimatum One Week After Talking

  • It’s one thing to give a person an ultimatum to decide whether they want to be in an exclusive relationship with you when the two of you been talking on a regular for about 3 months. However, it’s unrealistic to give an ultimatum in less than a week, when the person is likely to still be trying know you more, since they haven’t spent much time around you.

Demands To Become A Top Priority Almost Overnight In Their Life

  • If an individual wants to know more about you, they should be able to find a way to set aside some time for you, no matter how busy they might be. Still, you can’t expect everyone you initially meet to make it a priority overnight for their life to evolve around you. I say that because most people got key friends and family they have been knowing for years already before you entered the picture.

What are some other unrealistic goals that you feel some people set when they first start talking to someone?

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Proper Context

Be careful in taking relationship advice from an expert always, especially when he/she doesn’t know specific details about your situation. This is important for them to know so they can provide guidance in the proper context. Thus, listed below are two examples of the importance of this.

“If a man cheats, he doesn’t really care about you”

  • I want to first say I don’t condone a person cheating in a relationship ever. Yet, just because a person cheated doesn’t always mean they don’t care about you. It does mean that they’re human and made a mistake though. However, if the person has cheated multiple times, it’s a high probability they don’t care, since the same mistake shouldn’t be made over and over.

“Leave him if he refuses to stop going to the strip club”

  • It’s important to have key beliefs and values in life and not be willing to make exceptions to certain things. However, if your man going to the strip club isn’t a deal breaker, but just something you don’t like and he makes you feel like a queen and special most of the time you’re around or talking to him, I wouldn’t advise a woman to leave solely because of that.

What are some other examples of things related to relationship advice that you feel it’s important to have proper context on?

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NO

It’s natural when you love someone to want to be there for them always, especially when they need you. However, it’s important to be honest and able to tell people that we love NO sometime when we need to.

Repeat Past Mistakes On A Regular

  • If an individual starts to come to you on a regular for help on the exact thing you’ve previously bailed them out on, then it’s probably time to say NO, since they’re clearly not learning from past lessons and repeating the same mistakes.

Feeling Of Entitlement

  • When a person starts to tell you what you should do for them, instead of asking, they feel entitle. Therefore, it’s important to say NO to remind the individual that things you do for them are out of love, but definitely not from obligation.

What are some other things that you feel it’s important to tell people that we love NO sometime when we need to?

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Imperfections

We can choose our friends in life but we can’t choose family. Thus, it’s important for us to try and love family members for their good qualities and accept them for their imperfections.

  • Be Aware Of Their Shortcomings

Nobody is perfect, why as humans, we all have different strengths and weaknesses. Therefore, if you got somebody you love that’s known to not be on time hardly for anything, it’s best to not depend on that person for something like dropping you off at the airport for a schedule flight if you can help it.

  • Love From A Distance When Needed

Everybody that we love don’t know how to deal with personal issues they might be going through, which can impact how they treat us. Furthermore, some people we love don’t know how to provide us with words of encouragement when we open up to them and discuss things we’re dealing with. As a result, it’s important to know when to distance ourselves from love ones when they start to impact us in a negative way consistently in where we’re trying to go in life.

What are some of imperfections of some of your family members that you use to resent about them but learned to accept?

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Men

Last week I covered some key signs for a man to be aware of when a woman isn’t really interested in being in an exclusive romantic relationship with him. Therefore, I’ll be covering red flags below for a lady to be on the lookout for this week when it comes to men.

  • Shows no initiative to plan an actual date within a week

The average man, including myself, will want to see a woman again within a week if he has just started talking with her and find her physically attracted, unless he had a prior engagement already.

  • Consistently only text or call you first late at night

This is a clear sign that the guy is just looking to try and come over and have sex. Thus, when he consistently only randomly calls or text first late at night, his actions showing who he is. Also, this shows a lack of respect by him towards the woman well.

  • Consistently never text or call you first unless he’s trying to see you

When a guy is really interested in you he will consistently call or text you randomly sometime as well. Thus, if he hardly ever initiates a conversation with you that usually means he’s not that into you.

What are some other red flags to watch out for when it comes to men?

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Women

When it comes to dating everybody doesn’t recognize some key signs that someone isn’t really interested. Therefore, I’m touching on some red flags for a man to be aware when it comes to women.

  • Text you back a day or more later, if at all on a regular

We all can get busy and forget to text someone back, especially in the middle of a workday. However, if a lady consistently does this, she usually isn’t that interested in the guy. Furthermore, she probably just texting you back just to be nice when she does.

  • Only responds back to you consistently when it’s related to something she wants

If she never too busy to talk when it comes to her trying to get something from you, but always too busy otherwise, this is an indication that she isn’t interested and clearly trying to use you as well.

  • Never able to give you an exact date or time when she is free to go on a date

If you have tried to take a lady out on a date on more than one random occasion and she never gets back to you with a date or time she’s free, it’s best to cut your losses and leave her alone.

What are some other red flags to watch out for when it comes to women?

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