Respecting Your Partner Part II

I try and see things from more than one perspective always, along with being objective. As a result, I’m addressing men being disrespectful to their woman this week in this two part series.

Never Willing To Compromise

  • Some guys refuse to ever compromise, even though any successful relationship will evolve it happening sometime by both partners. Therefore, if it’s something that your lady ask you to do, be willing to put her first and oblige sometime.

Treating Your Lady Like Your Maid

  • Just because you got a lady that doesn’t mind and take pride in doing most of the household chores, you shouldn’t take advantage of her kindness by treating her like your personal maid. For instance, instead of being lazy and leaving your dirty clothes right next to the hamper, go ahead and put your clothes in it and not leave it as a task for her to do.

What are some other situations you can recall or heard about, that a man disrespected his lady by doing?

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Respecting Your Partner Part I

If you want respect in life, you got to be willing to give that same amount of respect to another individual. Some women struggle with this concept as much as men. Therefore, I’ll provided some examples below of women belittling their man and plan to address men doing the same to their woman next week.

Talking To A Grown Man Like He’s Your Child

  • Just like you don’t talk to an adult like you would a baby, you shouldn’t talk to a grown man like he’s your child and emasculate him, especially in front of his friends and family, even if he’s easy going and never stands up for himself. Furthermore, you should look at your man as your equal and not as you being his superior.

Reminding Him On Regular That You Make Way More Money

  • Any self respecting and hard working man is not going to let you disrespect him on a regular, if ever for that matter, by constantly demeaning him just because you might make significantly more money than he does. Also, the only man that a woman might keep around for a while with that type of attitude is a lazy man with no self respect.

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Tough Conversations

It can be hard for some to try and have a tough conversation with their manager, especially when it’s around something they feel could of been handle better by him or her. However, often times it’s not all about what you say, but how you say it and where.

Have The Discussion In Private First

  • There is nothing wrong to me in questioning your manager authority, but it’s best in my opinion to have that 1:1 conversation in private first. I say that because if the roles were reverse, the average person will want their manager to show them that same respect, oppose to bringing it up initially in a room with other people around.

Convey Your Concern(s) In Your Normal Speaking Tone

  • You should go into the meeting with your manager with an open mind, while being cognizant to try and not voice your concerns using a loud tone, since the message you want to communicate can easily get taken the wrong way with that approach. Also, be sure to get your manager perspective, because it might of been something you did unknowingly that triggered their response.

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Unrealistic Relationship Goals

A conversation to set clear expectations of what you’re looking for should take place early on when you first start to talk to a person so the two of you can be on the same page. Yet, unrealistic goals can end a potential relationship before it even starts.

Relationship Ultimatum One Week After Talking

  • It’s one thing to give a person an ultimatum to decide whether they want to be in an exclusive relationship with you when the two of you been talking on a regular for about 3 months. However, it’s unrealistic to give an ultimatum in less than a week, when the person is likely to still be trying know you more, since they haven’t spent much time around you.

Demands To Become A Top Priority Almost Overnight In Their Life

  • If an individual wants to know more about you, they should be able to find a way to set aside some time for you, no matter how busy they might be. Still, you can’t expect everyone you initially meet to make it a priority overnight for their life to evolve around you. I say that because most people got key friends and family they have been knowing for years already before you entered the picture.

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Trap Kings

Most of us have heard about a woman getting pregnant on purpose before, by deceiving the man in some type of way. Yet, these days it’s just as prevalent unfortunately for some men to do the same thing. As a result, I’ve listed two key traits below of guys that usually does this.

Controlling Man

  • If a guy is controlling and has a nice young lady as his girlfriend/wife that he isn’t treating right, friends and family usually will make him aware of it on a regular. Thus, when some controlling guys feel that their lady might be thinking about leaving them, they will get her pregnant on purpose because the average woman is not as quick to end a relationship she isn’t happy in when a child is involve.

Insecure Man

  • Insecure men normally don’t feel they deserve their woman, why some routinely go out of their way to try and put her down instead of building her up. Furthermore, they usually don’t bring just as much to the table either and often get mad at their lady for her achievements in life, even if she doesn’t rub it in his face and treats him as her equal.

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Controlling Partner

When you’re in love, most people don’t pay attention to or recognize key red flags that are present at the start of the relationship. Thus, I’ve listed below some traits of a controlling partner.

Belittle You Often

  • Your partner should be building you up and offering words of encouragement when needed. Yet, a controlling partner often does the opposite by trying to tear you down and belittling you.

Try To Isolate You From Friends/Family

  • A controlling partner will try and isolate you by making you feel guilty, along with texting and calling constantly with accusations whenever you do hang out with friends and family, so you’ll eventually end up not going out without them just to keep the peace.

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Games People Play Part II

Everybody in a romantic relationship isn’t in one because they see a long term future with their partner. Unfortunately, the sad truth is that some people are just in it for convenience at that particular time. Thus, they are willing to cheat without hesitation on a regular, since they don’t cherish and really value their partner.

Furthermore, those type of people will find something small their partner did and make a big deal about it and start an argument, mainly so they can go and cheat and use that as an excuse why they didn’t come home that night or answered their phone to at least let their partner know they’re alright.

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Compromise

In order to have a long term healthy relationship you got to be willing to compromise on certain things. Yet, this is a trait that some adults lack. Thus, listed below are a couple of key things to be aware of with a potential partner.

1. Not Willing To Put Your Interests First Ever

If someone you care about ask you to join them in doing something they really enjoy and it doesn’t compromise your morals and values, be willing to do the activity with them occasionally, even if it’s just for an hour.

2. Not Willing To Answer Specific Questions

A person that you’re in a relationship with shouldn’t have an issue in answering a specific question that you ask them with a specific answer, without needing to get upset and mad, especially if they got nothing to hide.

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Not Your Decision

We get to decide a lot of things in life as adults, whether that pertains to what we do for a living or who we decide to be in a relationship with. Yet, one thing we don’t get to choose is how we might of made someone feel by something we did.

As a result, if someone does tell you that you hurt their feelings, I recommend that you first apologize to the individual, even if you don’t feel like you did anything wrong.

Next, ask the person why do they feel that you did something to hurt their feelings, because you might of did something to them unintentionally. Furthermore, by asking, you can do a better job to avoid doing it again in the future.

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All In or All Out

Any successful relationship involves some compromising on both sides in order for it to work. However, I feel like there are some things that both people must fully believe and have naturally together.

Great Chemistry

  • We should strive to be with someone that the chemistry just flows naturally with while on the phone or talking to the individual in person. Also, the conversation should rarely feel force like either of you had to work hard to find something to discuss.

Believe In Similar Key Values In Life

  • If you believe in some form of a higher power and the person you’re with is an Atheist who doesn’t, this type of situation can be a key detriment to the relationship definitely in the long term if not even in the short term.

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