Respecting A Man

If you want respect in life, you got to be willing to give that same amount of respect to another individual. Some women struggle with this concept as much as men. Therefore, I’ll provided some examples below of women belittling their man and plan to address men doing the same to their woman next week.

Talking To A Grown Man Like He’s Your Child

  • Just like you don’t talk to an adult like you would a baby, you shouldn’t talk to a grown man like he’s your child and emasculate him, especially in front of his friends and family, even if he’s easy going and never stands up for himself. Furthermore, you should look at your man as your equal and not as you being his superior.

Reminding Him On Regular That You Make Way More Money

  • Any self respecting and hard working man is not going to let you disrespect him on a regular, if ever for that matter, by constantly demeaning him just because you might make significantly more money than he does. Also, the only man that a woman might keep around for a while with that type of attitude is a lazy man with no self respect.

What are some other situations you can recall or heard about, which a lady belittle her man?

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Tough Conversations

It can be hard for some to try and have a tough conversation with their manager, especially when it’s around something they feel could of been handle better by him or her. However, often times it’s not all about what you say, but how you say it and where.

Have The Discussion In Private First

  • There is nothing wrong to me in questioning your manager authority, but it’s best in my opinion to have that 1:1 conversation in private first. I say that because if the roles were reverse, the average person will want their manager to show them that same respect, oppose to bringing it up initially in a room with other people around.

Convey Your Concern(s) In Your Normal Speaking Tone

  • You should go into the meeting with your manager with an open mind, while being cognizant to try and not voice your concerns using a loud tone, since the message you want to communicate can easily get taken the wrong way with that approach. Also, be sure to get your manager perspective, because it might of been something you did unknowingly that triggered their response.

What are some tough conversations that you’ve had with your manager/supervisor before?

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Things Can Always Be Worst

So many of us in this world focus so much on what we don’t have, that we don’t take the time to appreciate what we do have. Also, no matter how bad you feel about your current life, there is somebody in this world that would love to trade places with you.

Unemployed Currently

  • A high number of people in this world don’t have a job currently. However, there is a lot of people fighting a serious illness that would love to have that as their biggest worry and have their health and strength back.

Material Things Don’t Always Equate To Happiness

  • Someone can have way less material things in life than another individual. Yet, if the person with less take the time to appreciate often what they do have, like a loving family, and the other individual is focusing most of their time on what they don’t have, the person with less material things will actually be more happy in life and probably envied by the other person if the two of them know each other.

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Unrealistic Relationship Goals

A conversation to set clear expectations of what you’re looking for should take place early on when you first start to talk to a person so the two of you can be on the same page. Yet, unrealistic goals can end a potential relationship before it even starts.

Relationship Ultimatum One Week After Talking

  • It’s one thing to give a person an ultimatum to decide whether they want to be in an exclusive relationship with you when the two of you been talking on a regular for about 3 months. However, it’s unrealistic to give an ultimatum in less than a week, when the person is likely to still be trying know you more, since they haven’t spent much time around you.

Demands To Become A Top Priority Almost Overnight In Their Life

  • If an individual wants to know more about you, they should be able to find a way to set aside some time for you, no matter how busy they might be. Still, you can’t expect everyone you initially meet to make it a priority overnight for their life to evolve around you. I say that because most people got key friends and family they have been knowing for years already before you entered the picture.

What are some other unrealistic goals that you feel some people set when they first start talking to someone?

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Proper Context

Be careful in taking relationship advice from an expert always, especially when he/she doesn’t know specific details about your situation. This is important for them to know so they can provide guidance in the proper context. Thus, listed below are two examples of the importance of this.

“If a man cheats, he doesn’t really care about you”

  • I want to first say I don’t condone a person cheating in a relationship ever. Yet, just because a person cheated doesn’t always mean they don’t care about you. It does mean that they’re human and made a mistake though. However, if the person has cheated multiple times, it’s a high probability they don’t care, since the same mistake shouldn’t be made over and over.

“Leave him if he refuses to stop going to the strip club”

  • It’s important to have key beliefs and values in life and not be willing to make exceptions to certain things. However, if your man going to the strip club isn’t a deal breaker, but just something you don’t like and he makes you feel like a queen and special most of the time you’re around or talking to him, I wouldn’t advise a woman to leave solely because of that.

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What Would You Do?

We don’t need to experience some things in life firsthand and can learn from others instead. Yet, it’s critical to seek advice from the right people when it comes to certain things.

  • Career Path Advice

Just because someone might be an expert in one field doesn’t guarantee that they’re an expert in a totally different field, which they haven’t spent any time really working in. Thus, look for career advice from an individual that is already where you’re striving to be at eventually and who was once in your current position.

  • Money Advice

Most family members we’re close to have our best interests at heart when they give financial advice. However, their advice is only based on what they know. Therefore, seek money advice from a person actually living the life you desire to have already, so you can have a better idea of what that person does consistently on a regular and try to incorporate some, if not all of those things in your life.

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Trap Kings

Most of us have heard about a woman getting pregnant on purpose before, by deceiving the man in some type of way. Yet, these days it’s just as prevalent unfortunately for some men to do the same thing. As a result, I’ve listed two key traits below of guys that usually does this.

Controlling Man

  • If a guy is controlling and has a nice young lady as his girlfriend/wife that he isn’t treating right, friends and family usually will make him aware of it on a regular. Thus, when some controlling guys feel that their lady might be thinking about leaving them, they will get her pregnant on purpose because the average woman is not as quick to end a relationship she isn’t happy in when a child is involve.

Insecure Man

  • Insecure men normally don’t feel they deserve their woman, why some routinely go out of their way to try and put her down instead of building her up. Furthermore, they usually don’t bring just as much to the table either and often get mad at their lady for her achievements in life, even if she doesn’t rub it in his face and treats him as her equal.

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Spontaneous In Life

There is nothing wrong with being spontaneous when it comes to certain things. Yet, the average person can’t afford to be that way in everything they do in life. Thus, I’ll listed a couple of those things below.

Retirement Savings

  • This isn’t something you can decide to get serious about 5-10 years before you’re planning to retire. As a result, you should start contributing consistently to this savings at least by your late 20s.

Kid’s Tuition

  • There is a 50/50 chance that your kid is going to college one day when they’re born. Therefore, don’t wait until your child is a junior or senior in high school to start trying to save for it or worst case, leave it up to your child to pay for it on their own.

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What Up With The Questions?

A person has to be willing to answer simple, yet legit questions in order for someone to get know them. Therefore, if you got an issue with the questions below being asked, you’re probably not ready or should be dating.

What you do for a living?

  • An individual you just started talking to shouldn’t be asking how much you make a year. However, what you do for a living is a valid question, since some people aren’t doing anything in life with no ambition. Furthermore, what you do might be legal, but doesn’t align with their beliefs and values.

What are your expectations between us?

  • It’s important to always have expectations and express them, especially when first meeting someone, so the two of you are on the same page from the start and know what the other is looking for. Thus, people that know they’re not looking for anything long term and plan to just waste your time usually have an issue with this question.

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Controlling Partner

When you’re in love, most people don’t pay attention to or recognize key red flags that are present at the start of the relationship. Thus, I’ve listed below some traits of a controlling partner.

Belittle You Often

  • Your partner should be building you up and offering words of encouragement when needed. Yet, a controlling partner often does the opposite by trying to tear you down and belittling you.

Try To Isolate You From Friends/Family

  • A controlling partner will try and isolate you by making you feel guilty, along with texting and calling constantly with accusations whenever you do hang out with friends and family, so you’ll eventually end up not going out without them just to keep the peace.

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